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Protecting Our Kids in the Digital Age

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February 10, 2025•3 min read

Protecting Our Kids in Digital Age

January 31, 2025 by Katie Travis |Leave a Comment

The Hidden Digital Lives of Teenagers

As a former teacher, I witnessed firsthand the alarming ways students navigate the digital world without their parents' knowledge.

  • 2/3 of my students had burner phones—backup devices their parents had no idea existed. If their primary phone was taken away, they used the burner in secret.

  • Almost all had "Finstas"—fake Instagram accounts designed to hide content from their parents.

  • Many stayed up all night on their phones, afraid that missing a message would damage their social standing.

One day, a student left a phone in my classroom. When I clicked the screen to identify the owner, I was shocked to see it unlocked. A text thread revealed that one of my sweetest, most unassuming students—a 14-year-old girl—had sent a revealing selfie to a boy.

This is the reality we face.

The digital world is challenging even for adults, and yet, we expect kids with still-developing brains to navigate it safely.

The Importance of Safer Internet Day

Today is Safer Internet Day, the perfect opportunity to talk with your children about online safety. Start the conversation about responsible internet use, privacy, and the dangers lurking behind seemingly harmless apps.

Apps Parents Should Know About

Many apps available to kids pose potential risks. Here are some that require parental awareness:

Social Media & Messaging Apps

  • Snapchat – Messages disappear but can be screenshotted.

  • Instagram – Kids create hidden “Finsta” accounts.

  • WhatsApp – Encrypted messages make it harder to monitor activity.

  • Kik – Allows anonymous messaging.

  • Discord – Chatrooms with strangers and unmoderated content.

Anonymous & Location-Based Apps

  • Omegle – Video chats with strangers.

  • Yik Yak – An anonymous, location-based app known for bullying.

  • MeetMe – Encourages in-person meetups.

  • Whisper – Anonymous sharing, but reveals users' locations.

  • Live Me – Live streaming app that exposes kids to inappropriate content.

Dating Apps Used by Minors

  • Grindr – Designed for LGBTQ+ dating, but accessible to minors.

  • Badoo – Adult dating app, but teens create fake accounts.

  • Hily – A dating app with location tracking.

Secretive & Disguised Apps

  • Best Secret Folder – Hides photos and videos.

  • Calculator% – Disguised as a calculator but used to hide files.

Gaming Apps with Risks

  • Roblox – In-game chat allows strangers to communicate.

  • Among Us – Chatrooms can expose kids to unfiltered conversations.

What Parents Can Do

  • Talk to Your Kids – Have open, honest conversations about online safety.

  • Check Their Devices – Look for unfamiliar apps and hidden accounts.

  • Set Boundaries – Establish screen time limits and enforce digital curfews.

  • Use Parental Controls – Monitor activity through built-in controls or third-party apps.

  • Follow Trusted Experts – Resources like Officer Gomez’s Facebook page provide valuable insights.

Final Thoughts

The internet is a powerful tool, but without proper guidance, it can be dangerous for kids. As parents, educators, and guardians, we must stay informed and proactive. Let’s work together to ensure our children’s safety in the digital world.

#StartTheConversation today.

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